How happy are you? Not as happy as if you were living in Denmark, apparently.
Denmark is the world’s most content nation, according to a recent study on global well-being. Surprisingly, I think, the United States is way down the happiness list at the Number 16 spot. Researchers at the University of Michigan said Denmark earned the top spot thanks to economic prosperity, stability and democracy.
"I strongly suspect there is a strong correlation between peace and happiness," said Ronald Inglehart, a political scientist at the University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research. "There is also a correlation between democracy and peace. Democracies are less likely to fight each other than non-democracies."
At least the good news is that despite the economy, the housing and credit crises and rising fuel and food prices, we’re all supposedly getting happier. Researchers said that compared to a similar study conducted two decades ago, respondents were much happier.
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Given the state of the US economy, I wouldn't be surprised if it's difficult for many to be happy... if you have known a luxurious lifestyle, you never want to settle for less. But to keep head above water, I believe education is the key vs. those individuals that don't even give wealth creation much thought.
From people like Warren Buffet to Bill Gates, they all have a personal business philosophy, which has yielded extraordinary results. In tough economic times, old methods may no longer work and it may be time to improve. Just as you went to business school to compare yourself to the best, we all should take a moment and compare ourselves as well.
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Sincerely,
Mr. D. Leung
New York
What was lost...Inspiration to live.
Too much about materlistic greed, to burn out the true inspration.
Then, I,m write again:
I live in a small and ugly house with my mother, 89 years,I don,t have any conditions to repair it (Only a bedroom, a litlle kitchen, a visit room, a toilett that if you saw, you will never believe (I,m sorry, I don,t know English, I speak only Portuguese) i would like to have a bedroom only for me.
But, I,m happy because I,m in a good health.
Maybe more than someone that live in a palace in Kopenhagen...
Thanks for the opportunity
Dulcinea Sagrado
I’m Danish and i do believe, that the Danish people are relatively content with there lives, the reason why, is that we have a more relaxed relationship with our work, and the people that work there, including the chairmen and other high ranking people in the company’s, we are all casual in our tones and among echother, where in the US they have a more rigid way, in regards to what rank one has in the company, the higher the rank the more respect is demanded, for example Sir or Mr. is applied. Where in demark everybody is on first names more or less, and i believe that eases tension and makes a more relaxed and productive atmosphere.
Happiness is not something that anyone can give you or make for you. I firmly believe that it is an internal thing. Ifnfact I have heard many people say or he or she makes them happy, and the day that person dissapoints them, happiness is fast fleeting. Therefore I never like to depend upon someone or something else to make me happy. I would venture to say that some people could move to the happiest place on earth, Denmark, and still find something to be depressed about. I think that the economy and democracy do play a major role in the potential for happiness. The reallity is that not everyone will fit in such a small country, nor will the majority be able to emmigrate to Canada. So I say if we want to rise above the rung of the 16th nation on the "Happiness" scale, we need to learn the reasons their democracy and prosperity are working.
I am going to start with my personal thoughts: Control. There are a lot the U.S. Citizens who feel they have no choices, but to work at jobs they hate under oppressive bosses. What makes this the land of opportunities is not just because we have so much land, but that we can LEARN what it takes to be successful at any dream we choose. I have always prayed "Dear God, If I ever I am in a bad situation, give me the strength and courage to get out of it, no matter how old I get." So far in my mid fities, I have been able to to that. Sometimes I tell the employer --- "Austa la vista" (in no uncertain terms). Other times they have to cut back and let go of laborers (like educators in California). Granted, I am worry about losing the Medical Benefits and the Retirement Plan. But I want to "turn lemons into lemonade."
So many cliches are so true. We have to look for "silver linings," opportunities to take control and not be a victim of circumstances.
In those miserable countries, when and where do they have moments (brief as they are) of happiness? In most photos I have seen and stories I have read, it's been when they can be with family or loved ones, and if they don't have either, they make connections to compensate for their losses. I wonder if there is a correlation to what a Nation can give to the world (just as in personal relations ships) that makes them happy. You know that "it is in giving that we recieve," unless it is in a lopsided codependent relationship where some one is always the taker but never reciprocates the favor.
So I would propse that we measure happiness on more basal levels than democracy and prosperity.
If the USA was to be more prosperousand gave more, would that help? "I du no?" We have given to countries who turned on us. So walking timidly among a world of people with a sure way to defend may be safe, but to be happy we should remember our humble beginnings and History. There will always be opressors, hood swanglers and the like. But the world is made up of individuals who emmit a gentle loving spirit. If we gravitate to those kind people and become happy inside, our happiness will exude too. We will have the courage and faith to start our own businesses because we will attract the kind of people into our lives that make our lives better.
Though along time ago, I had to break up with a user boyfriend, I can't feel like a looser. Though I was one of 70-some thousand teachers laid off, I have to keep reminding myself what my bosses said to me, "It is not because of your job performance.... You are one of the excellent candidates." Happiness is that internal gage that gives us confidence and the ability to use our skills somewhere to make a contribution, and not worry about the prosperity, but to just do your best. Be happy with yo
Regarding the correlations with democracies... I'm not a history or political major so I can only speak for recent years through memory, but it seems to me like governments usually don't want to fight each other, considering themselves friend by default (enemy of my enemy is my friend, considering other forms of government their enemies)... I think there's more to the correlation of happiness with democracies though... People actually feel more safe from their government because they have a strong hand in its actions (at least, they're supposed to). Even at its worst when the people are convinced they've played a major part in their own directions, they can say "at least I'm fighting for something I believe in."
David Rader
http://chexed.blogspot.com/
i'm from south africa and i feel for zimbabwe, our neigbours to the north. the political situation doesn't seem to be getting any better with robert mugabe as the leader of the nation. zimbabwe has much potential, and a new ruling party will definitely change their current economic situation.
I can understand not being happy about a hurricane like Katrina, but these people make a big deal about a gentle summer storm.
I think Americans are so far out of wack with the naturally good things in life that the pharmacy and the doctors have replaced mother's milk and a smile.
It is the best time of summer and the people who love the beach and outdoor activities are being "indoor air-conditioned slaves" in a corporation that will downsize and forget your name.
In some countries workers take the entire month of August off from work. This makes sense. Children are out of school and the parents who brought them into this world and are alive and able to spend quality time with them, should be given every opportunity to do so. Teenagers who want to work would have a better chance of trying out jobs that could benefit them in the future before returning to finish school in the fall.
If Americans aren't the happiest country in the world after all the "toys" that are available, it might be because they work too hard and don't play often enough. Ya think?
Happiness for me is subjective where as for others it is objective. It is very hard for me to look at a big house or a fancy car or calling each other by their first names etc as being happy. On the other hand when i see nations coming together to help alleviate problems that gives me that warmness inside. When i can help someone who is suffering or is less fortunate than i am then i am happy. When i can sit down and know to myself that i have exhausted all my efforts to help myself along with other then i am truly happy.
Do any of u honestly feel one nation can be happy knowing that the world is in total chaos while they sit back and do absolutely nothing to help? The ultimate goal in life is to be happy and this cannot and will never be in isolation to all the other existing problems in the world.
TOGETHERNESS/UNITY/SOLIDARITY, HUMANITY, UNDERSTANDING, LOVE ...ARE THE SOME OF THE INGREDIENTS FOR HAPPINESS...TRUE HAPPINESS
Looking back at our history, you can see the road wasn't always easy. Just look at the lives lost in the first few years. If these nations work at it and the people participate, they too will join the ranks of "Happy" Democracies.
Why are we not on the list of the top 10? In my opinion, a majority of Americans do not read, know or understand the road we have been on as a nation and the wealth (non-monetary) that we have in our freedoms. To them I say, get out, participate and learn. You only get out of life what you put into it.
I am VERY HAPPY!
Bill Rippe
http://ThePrepaidSite.Blogspot.com
I'm from Belgium and I have to say that I'm pretty happy, I found it strange that the people in N. Ireland would be happier than the people in Belgium.
Beshops
http://www.beshops.org
However, Norwegians notice the higher level of general happiness in Denmark, whose tourist agencies use the slogan "It is wonderful to be Norwegian in Denmark". So Norwegians go to Denmark to be happy (and drink less expensive beer), and then back again to complain (often about the high beer prices and that Norwegians complain so much).
I think "the Danish formula" consist of humour, tolerance and cosiness, with a slight and guilt-free hedonism on top of it. Honesty in politics also helps, I guess.
Best regards from Rudy Wolff, despite all this a happy Norwegian.
I believe Canada remains one of the most peaceful, most beautiful place to live in, in the whole world. We are affected by the US financial crises, but our economy is not structured the same as yours, so we don't feel the stress yet of job losses and money problems for families. We might in the next year or so. We elected a conservative Prime Minister, but in my province, we elected the Bloc Quebecois, which is a party that defends French Quebecers interests.
I sometimes think that our province complains about unimportant things, but I truly believe we are a happy country. We just get bored sometimes because there are rarely any "tragedies" in Canada, even if we are neighbors with the US. We rarely hear about tornados in Canada, major storms or terrible shootings killing innocent students. For all those reasons, I think Canada should remain in the top 10 or even top 5 countries to live in, in the world.
Have a good election in the US, please encourage the whole country to vote, it is not a choice, it is a duty.
Katina Diep
Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Happiness isn't an external condition. Happiness is a choice, and it is internal. I believe it was Abe Lincoln that said "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." If you can develop an attitude of gratitude, I believe it is much easier to at least find moments of joy in simple pleasures. Even in the most difficult situations, people find things to be happy about.
We need president like Obama:) (keeding,but it would be nice)
For regret all of our politicians are liers...I don't know the reason,but it's sad.
So may be the most important thing for one nation to be happy is good goverment!
I think that the happiness of people, the lives they live, really depends on the character of the people and on the values they have.
Someone with endless desires may never be content. Someone who looks at other people, wants their things, but doesn't want to take action to change his life is always going to be unhappy.
As for democracy, I think the US is a good example of democracy not stopping any wars. It may be that even if Denmark had the power that the US has, they still wouldn't fight other countries, but that would ultimately be a difference in the character of the people, and how they choose to seek their objectives, and not the system of government. I strongly believe that in the end its characteristics like intelligence, good-will towards others, and hard work, that if common among people, bring sustainable success to a country - or any other venture that is expected to last more than a short period of time.